points to note:

1. being understanding towards people especially... once he understand things he'll do it faithfully, got to explain things to him. cannot shout at him
2. understand the accountability of each life to their love ones, that safety is a concern and the overseeing should be there.
3. to provide the spiritual covering necessary, as an overseer such that i have the overall picture in mind knowing the details of each and every follow up.
4. be there to watch over and ensure things are running, understand the rationale for each move.
   
5. cannot be doing everything by myself, if so who's going to oversee me?
   
6. understand that overseeing is not just watching and giving instructions but see that things are going to fill in the gap.
   
7. learn not to discredit my leader by agreeing in what she says
8. i must learn to look at things not at the micron level only, but the reasons and rationale behind them, on a higher level. learn to think differently!!!
   

What I learn from Sun's shifting. Praise The Lord! =)